You know what my biggest argument against Christianity
was? That all Christians were a bunch of
hypocrites. At the time I hadn’t met
anyone who lived to the standards of Christ.
I would describe all the flaws of all the people that I knew were
Christians, I didn’t see their intention in trying their best to live holy
lives I just saw their shortcomings.
These weaknesses I held as enough to make my case against organized
religion… Months before my brother died
he asked if he could speak to a priest, mom took him to a nearby parish and
because they hadn’t scheduled an appointment and probably caught the priest of
guard, he yelled at them. He told him
that he didn’t have time and if they were regular parishioners they would know
to schedule an appointment and not come just whenever they NEEDED to come. This was a real hard blow for my brother who
was battling with schizophrenia and his thoughts went into interpreting this
interaction as God having left him. I
was so angry with the priest because he was supposed to be Jesus and when he
rejected my feeble brother – you know what they say, “mess with me, but don’t
mess with my loved ones!” In the years
since, I have come to the conclusion that we all hate liars, but that I need to
be less judgmental with people. We all
have bad days, we all stumble we all fall; but, the difference in a Christian
is that Jesus picks us up and motivates us to try better next time. Little by little, one fall at a time we are
invited to change and become holier.
Thus, Christians are not hypocrites, they just haven’t arrived at
holiness – like everyone else we are works in progress… That priest had a bad day, a moment where he didn't live up to the Christian expectation, but I have those off days all the time so now I understand that even ordain people have flaws, but that doesn't make them phonies.
...I have digressed from my original purpose… I love accessories and when I found my first
J Crew Bubble Necklace that retailed for $150 dollars at Goodwill for $6.99 I
just about passed out. Since, I found
five more and because I found two of the same color I figured I would try selling
one on my eBay store. That’s when I realized
that many people where not fooled into paying the hefty price and the pirates
of China capitalized on those beautiful beads.
After serious research I concluded that only one of my pieces is an
original and the others are fakes. Aww,
the woe of that discovery! Though I only
paid a few bucks for each, the fact that I was lied to, that my keen eye to spot
the real had been fooled made me so mad.
It was also an awakening into how big the counterfeit world has
grown. Now in addition to shoes, bags I
need to learn how to spot "real" costume jewelry!
Some of you might be thinking that I am being a bit dramatic,
but fakes are very harmful. I will
dedicate a future post into the world of counterfeits and the effects of it
because lies no matter where are no bueno.
But today I will go over the real J Crew Bubble Bib Necklace vs the J Smew copy.
The white one is the real $150 in 18K
gold plated brass with hand-set resin cabochons and beads, the red is one of the many replicas of this iconic statement piece. From afar both look exactly the same, but a trained eye would see difference immediately...
The chain on the white one is larger and has remained gold even though the necklace was released in 2012, the replica is much smaller, flimsier and has tarnished with age.
The end stopper, the real one has a simple gold fixing at each end of the beads the red one has a lace-like much bigger stopper.
The back design is subtle in the real J Crew and a nice shade of gold and much more defined both in detail and yellow color in the fake one.
Finally, the clasp on a real bubble necklace is a lobster clasp and the brand name tag is round with a bit of middle rise. The fake tag is much bigger, flat and the clasp is different. You can also see that with time the real one has kept its color while the dupe has tarnished.
I live for authenticity whether in people or the things that surround me because I know that while the differences between the real and the fake necklaces are visually subtle the cost between the two affects a whole lot of people. In a future post I will discuss the effects of counterfeits and why the real deal is much, much better for society. I will also add my knowledge on identifying the real deal for any authenticity nerds out there (smile).
The J Crew Bubble Necklace stands as a strong case for authenticity with its distinctive design and vibrant colors. Its bold statement piece quality makes it a timeless and eye-catching addition to any wardrobe. https://www.uneligne.ch/ Une Ligne Paris has carved out a distinct niche in fashion jewelry, drawing on global trends and the elusive allure of "le style parisien.
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