When I was
growing up, I saw mom approach the altar at our parish and light a candle regularly. She usually would be wearing a beautiful lace
veil, kneel and then pick up a match to light the votive. Kneeling she would bow her head, close her
eyes and I knew something profound was happening, as she prayed I’d stare at
her lost in admiration- hoping the day would come when I would be old enough to
follow in her footsteps. To this day
when I see parishes that still make room for this custom I get giddy inside
because I love the tangible, the concrete as a vehicle towards God. When I visit foreign countries, especially in
Europe, I go a little crazy trying to hit every altar and light a candle for
each petition because I love, love, love the tradition. I cherish that Catholicism takes pride in the
created and uses the material to connect us with God. For example, the simple act of lighting a
candle – of putting match to wax- symbolizes our prayer intention, our desire
to come in solidarity with the person on whose behalf the prayer is offered
for. The duration of the lit candle symbolizes our continual intersession, as
long as the light remains glowing so does our petition continues to be lifted
to the heavens. At the retreat house I
was in over the weekend, the sisters offered two different size candles: ones
that burn for a day and a bigger size that burns for five. This is a common option. When I have the choice, I prefer the large
ones because I love thinking that my prayers burn perpetually night and day for
five whole days! Sometimes when I am
given the candle (without the glass) I write my intentions with a permanent marker
so that my petitions are literally on the candle.
Some people
don’t understand the use of candles in our faith, but in Scripture Jesus
states, “I am the light of the world, no follower of mine shall ever walk in
darkness; no, he shall possess the light of life.” Light has a special significance to Catholics
it reminds us of the Paschal Mystery - of hope
in Christ. Jesus is the light
even in our troubles he lights our path; thus, lighting a votive shows our
understanding that even in the most challenging times our hope is in the Lord. I love the imagery a lit candle provides;
even though I walk away to complete my daily tasks, on the altar I leave my
prayer intentions and remain united in prayer with the Lord.
There’s
also a history, a rich tradition that is being passed down to us throughout the
ages. Early Christians held onto this
tradition from their Jewish roots. In
Jewish synagogues candles and oil lamps were continuously lit to show the presence
of God. We continue to have a perpetual
votive near the Tabernacle to this day!
In my
family we have a paschal candle that we light for each other when times get
difficult. If I am going to an
interview, or my brother-in-law is having a medical procedure, or we are
worried about a specific challenge we light the candle at home uniting our
worries with Christ. We do this to give
God the control and remind ourselves “His will be done.” Many Christians are afraid to use the
material afraid of idolatry, in Catholicism we use the created world to
enter more deeply into the heart of God.
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