Ultimate Christmas Gift Guide for Catholics

Stuck on what to get your Catholic friends for Christmas? Let me help you so that you can get all the shopping out of the way and focus on preparing your heart for Jesus this Advent.  Since, I am already done with my shopping I thought I'd share some gift ideas, my perfect seven list is so good that you might even want to buy all items for yourself! 

1) Saint Prints at Frameable Faith 

You can get a contemporary print of any saint you want to frame for a friend in various sizes- you choose which is best for you.  The prints are also quite inexpensive and ready to be slipped into a frame of your choice. 

2) Religious Jewelry by Luca + Danni

Luca +Dani is a brother and sister company that uses vintage molds to create different types of religious jewelry.  The uncompromised construction is made in the USA by skilled local artisans and they proudly carry on a deeply rooted family tradition of handcrafted jewelry.

3) Father Daniel's Photographic Note Card Sets

Father Daniel (from my local church) makes blank note cards using his photography talent for all occasions.  Not only are the cards beautiful, but each purchase helps provide support and care to senior friars.  Check the link above out he has a great selection to choose from and if you're in the area you can pick up a set at Saint Simon and Jude Catholic Church in Huntington Beach.  

4) Liturgical Planner From Blessed is She

The 8 x 10 "Blessed is She" Liturgical Planner runs from January through December 2019 and it will not only keep you organized it will remind you of important dates within our faith.

5) Music

Give the gift of music.  I recently purchased Lauren Daigle's album and I have been listening to it non-stop totally recommend it...  There's so much great Christian music whether contemporary or classical or somewhere inbetween that will make great gifts.    

6) The Great Adventure Catholic Bible

A new fun way to read the Bible that makes it easy to do so.  From Jeff Cavins, the creator of color coded timeline, this Bible will change the way you approach scripture.

  

7) The Wallet Rosary 

Never be without a rosary again.  Just place this card in your wallet and pull out anytime and anywhere!

Enjoy the shopping. 

A Story of Thanksgiving

After an oil spill a man found a penguin covered in oil in the murky waters.  The man took the animal home, bathe him and nursed the critter back to health.  Though the man lived in a warm climate location the penguin stayed with him for six months before finally making his way back into the waters and joining the rest of his huddle.  Yet, every year the penguin would return to the man’s home and remain with him for a few days during the winter months.  It’s astonishing how an animal has the ability to express gratitude, this behavior is worth contemplating… 

If we look at the Gospel story of the ten lepers that Jesus heals only one returns to express gratitude.  One out of the ten comes back, does that mean that only ten percent of us are people capable of expressing gratitude?  On Thanksgiving Day, my family and I went to Mass and the church was bursting with people.  It’s the annual trilingual service and the parish was full way over capacity, people were standing on the sides and the back of the room.  However, for a religion that has over 1.2 billion followers is this what ten percent of believers looks like?  

During one of the most beautiful seasons of the year, one in which we can express gratitude for the many blessings we have, we can get lost in the activity.  Between the cooking, baking, decorating, shopping…  It’s easy to put worship at the bottom of the list and never get to it.  On Thanksgiving Day, my nephew whined like crazy about attending Mass, “Why do we have to go if it’s not Sunday?”  I tried my best to explain the beauty of a thankful spirit, how expressing gratitude for what we have is healthy and needed.  Then we got to Mass and Father delivered a great homily about a penguin stuck in the oil and I could see that my nephew understood things more clearly.  As we left the service he seemed relaxed more content I could tell he enjoyed the beauty of the trilingual service.  Then later that night as we gathered around our thanksgiving table he reminded me that it was time to go around the table and share what we are thankful for.  Maybe we're not as natural as animals is expressing gratitude, but we can be taught (smile).     

Weekend in Pictures: Anniversary & Birthday

This weekend was one of much celebration.  It all began with a two hour radio special that my grandma dedicated in Michoacán for my parents (who celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary) and thanks to the internet we were able to listen to it from the states.  Family from all over called in to the radio and offered sweet sentiments while dedicating songs to my parents.  While their actual anniversary was on Friday – we decided to celebrate until Saturday because November 16 is a sweet sorrow of a day.  It not only marks the day both came together under God vowing to love one another until do them part, it’s also the anniversary of my brother’s death.  Thus, on Saturday we headed to a loudly decorated Mexican restaurant and with live Mariachi we celebrated a blessing of blessings – getting to witness fifty years of wedded bliss.  In fifty years so much has happened both good as well as many difficult challenges that could have caused a rupture an end, but in all the bad God worked to redeem every tear and heartbreak.  Today, my parents have baptized our home with laughter, I love being in my bedroom and hearing them laugh at each other’s silliness throughout our home.  They are both so goofy and so loving- that reaching their golden anniversary is as much of a triumph as it is reaching it with so much love, with so much joy and so much hope for the future.  My dad loves to shower my mom with compliments and my mom loves to be of service to him, is as if they know without having read The Five Love Languages, how each loves to be loved.  Sunday, we were able to go to Mass together and again we joined in prayer with our family in Mexico together offering Mass for my parents and also getting to witness father bestow a special blessing on the love birds.

On Friday, I also celebrated in my usual creative form my birthday – this time with an escape room themed celebration.  On Thursday, my sister and I worked on making my favorite carrot cake with homemade cream cheese icing.  She worked on the cake and I worked on the investigative decorations- after watching many episodes of “The Great British Baking Show,” I have learned that style over substance is a big no-no, so my sis and I worked on making a cake that tasted as good as it looked (smile).  I made reservations with Brainy Actz, a company that specializes in escape room fun.  Choosing the art theme room, my group and I were brought together by an international syndicate to locate the Master’s lair and retrieve the stolen Mona Lisa.  It was so much fun working together and at times just watching the creativity of each of my friends’ in solving complex puzzles, riddles and needed hints to try to make it out of the room before the clock struck an hour’s time.  The complexity in finding the lost painting and getting out of the room within an hour was really surprising.  The difficulty was definitely huge making the group working together a must, but even the two children that joined my party were able to participate.  We did manage to solve the challenge, after receiving a few hints from our hosts (smile), my nephew loved it so much he wants to do it again for his birthday!

My strongest love language is quality time and this weekend had so much of it that it filled my heart with so much joy! 

My Thank You List

I forgot which saint said that if the only prayer type we ever learn is that of thanksgiving we will do all right in this spiritual journey called life.  While it’s simple to say thank you, it requires a bit of training – am reminded of the Gospel story about the ten lepers who asked Jesus for healing and after healing all ten only one returns to say thank you.  This story illustrates how difficult it is to stop or return to God after we receive what we asked of Him in prayer.  For some reason (at least for me) prayer of petition (of asking for what I want) comes more naturally for most of us; but, the good news is we can learn to become more thankful. We can develop a grateful spirit with proper training (smile).

This week I received some good news and my natural reaction was to run to tell my parents the happy news.  After I told them that I had been extended two more months at my job and returned to my desk savoring the unexpected happening I realized that I hadn’t thanked the One who had made the little miracle possible.  Quickly I returned to God to personally thank Him and though my initial reaction was not to say thank you I didn’t beat myself up because my period before realizing that I must be grateful is getting shorter- yeahy!  I am neither the leper that rushed back to say thank you nor the nine that forgot- I am a happy medium making small progress in prayer of thanksgiving.

Days away from our national Thanksgiving holiday it seems fitting to make time to make a thankful list.  I know that in the cooking and preparations sometimes the spirit of the day is missed, but make an effort to go through your life and acknowledge all those blessings that often get missed in the bustle of things.  You’d be surprise how giving focus to the things we have and not those that we don’t will give you joy and satisfaction.  This Thanksgiving I have so many things to be thankful for especially not being laid off on my birthday or having another Christmas to share with my brown wolf.  Just writing these two things on my list already makes me so utterly happy- so come start your gracias list, “today, I am thankful for..."

1. Dollar's recovery.
2. My job.
3. My birds singing me awake.
4. My health.
5. Family
6. Friends.
7. Community.
8. Learning new skills- like baking!
9. Christmas gatherings.
10. Another year of life.
11. My faith.
12. Our Garden.
13. My silly parents
14. ...

World Vision Sponsor a Child Now

Recently I received the annual World Vision report for my little girl, who is not so little anymore.  Sarai is now in secondary school and looking more like a beautiful young woman.  There’s some people who have reservations about World Vision, but as a sponsor of quite some years now I have nothing but a good, solid experience working with them.

Becoming a Sponsor: For only $39 dollars a month you can help change lives.  Just go to their website and choose to be paired with a child of your choice from anywhere in the world. 

Make a Difference: Your monetary contribution will not only help one child, but it will change a community.  Through your donation children and families will enjoy good nutrition, receive an education, have seminars about human rights, leadership and developing skills to enter the work force.   

Develop a close relationship with your sponsor child:  World Vision makes it quite easy for you to have direct access to your sponsor child having various ways to keep in touch.  You can email your child, send letters or even a small package and wait for the child’s response.  If however you choose not to communicate, World Vision will send you an annual report about your child in addition to other news throughout the year.

I have been a sponsor for some years now and I truly love it because most of the time I can’t see the fruit of my labors, but through this organization I can totally see as my monetary contribution changes lives.  Sarai now lives in a concrete and brick home, has access to drinking water, proper nutrition and is in seventh grade in school.  This year’s photograph shows a confidence that wasn’t there in her earlier photos and it makes me so happy to be part of her growth (smile).       

Thoughts and Prayers

I read a response on a friend’s Facebook page to the shooting in California this morning, he stated quite angrily that he didn’t want to hear, “thoughts and prayers,” but wanted action in relation to gun violence.  I understand his frustration and his misunderstanding in relation to what prayer is because I have been in his shoes where I too had an erroneous understanding of Christian prayer.  I too felt like prayer was a waste of energy – that did nothing, but as I have grown in my faith I’ve come to understand that prayer is active not passive.  When we pray we bring our petitions to God, but we also contemplate with Him and most of the time He inspires us to do our part.  I’ve mentioned many times how I love the way my mother prays, “God, place the people you want me to help in my path today.”  This short prayer illustrates that raising others to God is good, He wants us to ask for His assistance, but He also has equipped us with many talents to help one another.  Prayer invites us to action.

Saint Simon and Jude has a ribbon prayer wall this November with our intentions.

I love the story about a man who was stuck on a rooftop during a great flood, and he prayed to God for help.  A boat passed by and the man refused saying, “am waiting for God to come help me.”  Then a helicopter came and again the man refused saying, “am waiting for God to come to my assistance.”  The flood ended claiming his life and when the man was in God’s presence the man angrily said you never came to help me and God said, “I sent you a boat and a helicopter, but you refused.”  Prayer also requires accepting help, many times our pride or just plain ignorance keeps us from being open to assistance.  I know that I have trouble receiving support because it puts me in a position of vulnerability.  Yet, I’ve come to understand that when I refuse the aid of another I am not allowing that person to shine nor allowing her to grow in charity. Prayer invites us to accept help.

Many times the pain of another is so great and so personal that all we can do is pray.  When a person loses a loved one, or discovers a fatal illness or a marriage falls apart…  There are situations where all we can do is raise them in prayer because we have no way of ridding our loved ones of those hurts- so we pray that God will come to their assistance.  Yet, even in those situations where we can't alleviate another’s suffering, prayer invites us to come together and be a unifying force of love.  When my brother died no one could take away my hurt, but all those people who sent sympathy cards, were present for funeral services or just sent good thoughts acknowledging my loss gave me so much hope. Prayer invites us to come together.

Social media is full of empty words, of people posting things without much thought- but when a Christian prayer warrior says, “my prayers and thoughts are with you,” the meaning is much deeper because his understanding of prayer is different.  He’s saying am taking your hurt, am presenting your petitions to a loving God – but I am also going to contemplate on how God can use me to be a blessing to you in this moment of turmoil.  And when those prayers get presented to God, expect Him to show you how to be a supportive friend because prayer is active.  Our Catholic faith is not just about believing, but also of putting those beliefs into action because “a faith without works is dead.”  Thus, I caution that when you do offer someone your thoughts and prayers do so realizing what you are promising because empty words do more hurt than good.

My Love of Scripture

God is always trying to get our attention.  When I was an agnostic I fell for a Christian.  He was the first person that I had ever met with a relationship with Jesus so strong that as much as I was in awe of it, it was also a bit challenging to digest.  He talked about Jesus as if Jesus was a real person and his faith as if it was the most important part of his life.  A few months after starting our relationship I was going away on a trip- which would be our first time apart.  We went out to dinner and he said, “I have a gift for you, I want you to open it at home when you are alone.”  I was excited by the surprise and rushed home to open the beautifully wrapped present thinking of what it could be.  When I opened it there in my hands laid a Bible.  I was both intrigued and insulted – on the corner of the Bible engraved in silver letters was my name and inside a dedication he had written. Though I could see the sentimentality of the gift and appreciated all the thought that went into this gift- I was agnostic and I thought “I am never going to read this.”  Thus, I stored it in my book shelve, there to remain until the day I needed it.

Some of my Bibles

The day my brother took his life, as I rushed to the ER I picked up that book without thinking.  Something inspired me to grab that Bible as I made my way to the hospital.  As I saw my family devastated in the waiting room I felt impotent, unable to wipe their tears.  Then I remembered the Bible that was in my purse and I took it out and said, “God, if you are real give me the words to comfort my family.”  I opened the Bible and began reading on the page where it fell opened to.  It was the first page of the story of Job.  I devoured that book and at its conclusion I knew that suffering could be redeemed by God.  That not one tear was wasted because God would turn our sadness into something good.  I understood that my brother’s suffering had meaning and purpose.  That my family and I could get through this darkness. 

The words in the pages of a rejected Bible gave me hope and I wanted more.  Thus, I started not only to read it, but I also started going to Mass and paying attention to each reading - each hymn.  And those holy words nurtured me back to life.  After the Book of Job I read Ecclesiastes and the Psalms and I remembered how much I identified with the suffering- but I also began to see hope.  I remembered that during Mass I would sob when I heard the readings because the words penetrated my soul, they broke down the walls that I had built against religion and against God.  I’ve always been moved by words- from a very young age I felt goosebumps when I heard poetry or read a good story- but never had I allowed myself to experience Sacred Scripture.  The relationship with the person who gave me the Bible didn’t last, but he came into my life to introduce me to my favorite book, the holy Bible.  That first Bible is now falling apart from the regular use of those early days of my initial conversion, but I am not...  God is always calling us to Him wanting us to allow Him to work in our lives and even when we are stubborn and don’t want anything to do with Him, He continues to reach out.  A gift that I was uncomfortable, ashamed and thought I would never use was how God penetrated my soul.  Looking back I see so many times when God called my name and I refused to hear Him; but, He persisted and that makes me so happy.  Usually when I continue to get rejected I give up- but God, He always seeks us with a love that overpowers pride.

The one I use mostly now.

That first Bible began my love of scripture.  Yesterday, I gave a lesson on the Bible to my RCIA class and I shared my intro to the Bible through a gift that I thought I would never use.  I also showed them my growing collection of Bibles.  Today, I lead a bilingual life and have a great English/Spanish Bible that makes it easy to be multi-cultural (smile).

Solemnity of All Saints a Day of Encouragement

Happy All Saints Day… It’s pretty neat how sandwiched in between Halloween and Dia de los Muertos the beef of our faith, the hope for our lives - All Saints Day is celebrated.  During a season when our society toys with a romanticized view of death our Church dedicates a day to honor all those holy lives gone before us as a way to play tribute, but also encourage us that heaven is possible.  These past few days I have been thinking of those who believe in a second death, the death that comes when a beloved is forgotten.  In fact, for all of us who have lost a loved one- that is perhaps one of the biggest fears that haunts us, I remember when my brother died I was terrified of forgetting the sound of his voice or what he looked like.  For the longest time I held on to the hurt of his passing because I felt that was the only thing I had left of his and I was afraid that letting go of the hurt would also mean letting go of him.  The loss of a loved one is terribly hard and thinking of a second death is equally devastating.  As usual my Catholic faith saved me by helping me realize that when we believe in God a second death is impossible.

Today we honor the saints, those men and women whose lives can serve as role models of our Christian faith, but we also honor those holy lives that never made the headlines.  Those quiet lives who are saints unaware by society.  The Church in its infinite wisdom honors the holiness today of all those people that have beat us to the finish line not just the famous well known saints, but all holy lives. Whether on earth we only remember the most influential – heaven is full of ordinary people because to God each person is equally important, equally loved - equally unforgettable.  As long as I live my brother is with me, “I carry his heart in mine,” BUT if one day my mind fails me and sends his memory to oblivion – God will never send him there.  Jesus came to save us in so many ways, to offer us hope even in the most hopeless situations and to teach us that if we choose Him – His mansion in heaven awaits all of us with a room allocated specifically to each with our name written above the door frame.

Today, is a day of obligation meaning that I will see you in the Eucharist (smile).  It’s also a day where we pray the Litany of the Saints the prayer that reminds me that even in death love doesn’t die or forget.  Just pay attention to the litany - there are names in that litany from Jesus’ day – names our Church has not forgotten.  There’s also names of a few saints that I still don’t know that to me do not have a personal connection (yet) but it excites me to see these names because they are proof that to God we are all worth so much more than sparrows.  A few years ago I went to the Cathedral of Our Lady of Angels in Los Angeles and inside the church on both sides hanging from high are tapestries with life size images of the saints.  As I walked down the center isle admiring the saint art on both sides of me I felt like I was in heaven surrounded by all those gone before me.  I am a novice in the study of saints, thus a lot of the saints honored on those walls were strangers to me which gave me a greater sense that in heaven I am going to meet a lot of holy people, people that perhaps to the world have been lost- but never to God because each of us is inolvidable para Dios today is proof of that.

THE LITANY OF THE SAINTS

Lord, have mercy on us. 

Christ, have mercy on us. 

Lord, have mercy on us. 

Christ, hear us. 

Christ, graciously hear us. 

God the Father of heaven, have mercy on us. (repeat after each line)

God the Son, Redeemer of the world, 

God the Holy Ghost, 

Holy Trinity, one God, 

Holy Mary, pray for us (repeat after each line)

Holy Mother of God, 

Holy Virgin of virgins, 

St. Michael, 

St. Gabriel, 

St. Raphael, 

All you holy angels and archangels, 

All you holy orders of blessed spirits, 

St. John the Baptist, 

St. Joseph, 

All you holy patriarchs and prophets, 

St. Peter, 

St. Paul, 

St. Andrew, 

St. James, 

St. John, 

St. Thomas, 

St. James, 

St. Philip, 

St. Bartholomew, 

St. Matthew, 

St. Simon, 

St. Thaddeus, 

St. Matthias, 

St. Barnabas, 

St. Luke, 

St. Mark, 

All you holy apostles and evangelists, 

All you holy disciples of our Lord, 

All you holy innocents, 

St. Stephen, 

St. Lawrence, 

St. Vincent, 

SS. Fabian and Sebastian, 

SS. John and Paul, 

SS. Cosmas and Damian, 

SS. Gervase and Protase, 

All you holy Martyrs, 

St. Sylvester, 

St. Gregory, 

St. Ambrose, 

St. Augustine, 

St. Jerome, 

St. Martin, 

St. Nicholas, 

All you holy bishops and confessors, 

All you holy doctors, 

St. Anthony, 

St. Benedict, 

St. Bernard, 

St. Dominic, 

St. Francis, 

All you holy priests and levites, 

All you holy monks and hermits, 

St. Mary Magdalen, 

St. Agatha, 

St. Lucy, 

St. Agnes, 

St. Cecilia, 

St. Catherine, 

St. Anastasia, 

All you holy virgins and widows, 

All you holy men and women, saints of God, intercede for us. 

Be merciful, spare us, O Lord. 

Be merciful, graciously hear us, O Lord. 

From all evil, deliver us, O Lord. (repeat after each line)

From all sin, 

From Thy wrath, 

From a sudden and unprovided death, 

From the deciets of the devil, 

From anger, and hatred, and all ill-will, 

From the spirit of fornication, 

From lightning and tempest, 

From the scourge of earthquakes, 

From plague, famine and war, 

From everlasting death, 

By the mystery of Thy holy incarnation, 

By Thy coming, 

By Thy nativity, 

By Thy baptism and holy fasting, 

By Thy Cross and Passion, 

By Thy Death and burial, 

By Thy holy Resurrection, 

By Thine admirable Ascension, 

By the coming of the Holy Ghost, the Paraclete. 

On the day of judgment. 

We sinners, we beseech Thee, hear us (repeat after each line)

That Thou wouldst spare us, 

That Thou wouldst pardon us, 

That Thou wouldst bring us to true penance, 

That Thou wouldst vouchsafe to govern and preserve Thy Holy Church, 

That Thou wouldst vouchsafe to preserve our Apostolic Prelate, and all ecclesiastical orders in holy religion, 

That Thou wouldst vouchsafe to humble the enemies of holy Church, 

That Thou wouldst vouchsafe to give peace and true concord to Christian kings and princes, 

That Thou wouldst vouchsafe to grant peace and unity to all Christian peoples, 

That Thou wouldst vouchsafe to ring back to the unity of the Church all who have strayed away, and lead to the light of the Gospel all unbelievers, 

That Thou wouldst vouchsafe to confirm and preserve us in Thy holy service, 

That Thou wouldst lift up our minds to heavenly desires, 

That Thou wouldst render eternal blessings to all our benefactors, 

That Thou wouldst deliver our souls, and the souls of our brethren, relatives, and benefactors from eternal damnation, 

That Thou wouldst vouchsafe to give and preserve the fruits of the earth, 

That Thou wouldst vouchsafe to grant eternal rest to all the faithful departed, 

That Thou wouldst vouchsafe graciously to hear us, Son of God, 

Lamb of God, who takest away the sins of the world, spare us, O Lord. 

Lamb of God, who takest away the sins of the world, graciously hear us, O Lord. 

Lamb of God, who takest away the sins of the world, have mercy on us. 

Christ, hear us. 

Christ, graciously hear us. 

Lord, have mercy on us. 

Christ, have mercy on us. 

Lord, have mercy on us. 

Our Father, etc. (inaudibly) 

V. And lead us not into temptation 

R. But deliver us from evil.